{"id":2027,"date":"2023-02-23T13:39:24","date_gmt":"2023-02-23T13:39:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/?p=2027"},"modified":"2023-02-23T13:39:26","modified_gmt":"2023-02-23T13:39:26","slug":"building-a-relationship-with-communication-emotion-with-derek-beckelman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/?p=2027","title":{"rendered":"Building a Relationship with Communication &amp; Emotion with Derek Beckelman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>In this episode, Jerry Bradshaw and Derek Beckelman discuss:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Building a relationship of trust with your new dog, both pet and working.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being consistent with the rules with your dog.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The emotional nature of dogs and handlers.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The clash between attention and anticipation.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Increasing the effectiveness of your communication with your dog.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Key Takeaways:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Using food, treats, or toys to motivate, especially in the early stages of building the relationship is not a bad thing. But you want to avoid becoming a treat dispensing robot.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are two sides to training &#8211; classical and operant. You do not want to focus only on operant conditioning and forget about the aspects of classical conditioning that can help with your training.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dogs will try to anticipate everything. We, as humans, fall into routines. These can clash and create conflict within the training.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Training can be frustrating. But the dog just wants to do dog things. You can\u2019t get mad at them for being a dog.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have to pay attention to where your dog\u2019s head is at in any given moment. Sometimes they aren\u2019t listening, not because they don\u2019t want to, but because they cannot due to other circumstances.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong><b><i>&#8220;It&#8217;s not up to me how quickly a dog makes progress. It&#8217;s up to the dog. But as long as we&#8217;re paying attention, and we&#8217;re reading what the dog is trying to tell us is going on, we can make jumps and progress when they&#8217;re ready. But you have to see it. You have to feel it, and that just takes experience.&#8221; <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2014\u00a0 Derek Beckelman<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">\n<p>Get Jerry&#8217;s book Controlled Aggression on <a href=\"http:\/\/Amazon.com\">Amazon.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Contact Jerry:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:JBradshaw@TarheelCanine.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">JBradshaw@TarheelCanine.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tarheelcanine.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tarheel Canine Training<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/streetreadyk9.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tarheel Canine Seminars<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Find us on social:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@tarheelcanine5392\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Youtube<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/TarheelCanine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Twitter<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/tarheelk9\/\">Instagram<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TK9.School.for.Dog.Trainers\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a>,<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/psak9-as.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PSA<\/a> (Protection Sports Association)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/patreon.com\/controlledaggression\">Patreon<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Slideshare: Tarheel Canine<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/calendly.com\/tarheelcanine\">Calendly<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Thanks to our sponsors<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/almk9equipment.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ALM K9 Equipment<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/psak9-as.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">PSA<\/a> &amp; American Schutzhund<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tarheelcanine.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tarheel Canine<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/superiorcanine.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Superior Canine Website<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Aaron\u2019s Superior Canine <a href=\"mailto:aaron@superiorcanine.ca\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Email<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/superiorcanineinc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Superior Canine Facebook<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/superiorcanineinc\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Superior Canine Instagram<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Train hard, train smart, be safe.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Show notes by Podcastologist Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie<\/p>\n<p>Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. 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Your podcast will prove it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this episode, Jerry Bradshaw and Derek Beckelman discuss: Building a relationship of trust with your new dog, both pet and working.\u00a0 Being consistent with the rules with your dog.\u00a0 The emotional nature of dogs and handlers.\u00a0 The clash between attention and anticipation.\u00a0 Increasing the effectiveness of your communication with your dog.\u00a0 \u00a0 Key Takeaways:&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2027","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2027"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2027\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}