{"id":1380,"date":"2021-12-23T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-23T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"231b2918-4c0b-4fac-ab7d-c574013e3198"},"modified":"2021-12-23T08:00:00","modified_gmt":"2021-12-23T08:00:00","slug":"dr-jessalyn-klein-youre-great-at-dogs-but-you-suck-at-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/?p=1380","title":{"rendered":"Dr. Jessalyn Klein: You\u2019re Great at Dogs but You Suck at People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In this episode, Jerry Bradshaw and Dr. Jessalyn Klein discuss:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Strategies for improving your people skills.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">The building blocks of emotional intelligence.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">The power in taking a pause.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Asking for (and processing) feedback, open ended questions, and how to connect with those you\u2019re working with.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Key Takeaways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Emotional intelligence is the key to understanding people, including yourself.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">Self-awareness involves both taking the time to check in with yourself physically and emotionally, and paying attention to your tone of voice and body language.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">What is second nature to you, maybe incomprehensible to someone else.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">All humans need positive feedback, usually in a three positive to one negative for optimal learning.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\">If you know your stuff and can communicate it, age doesn\u2019t matter.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;You&#8217;re going to have to communicate what the dog can do, you&#8217;re going to have to talk the person through things that they&#8217;re doing right or things that they need to work on. If you can&#8217;t figure out how to be aware of your own delivery style, how you&#8217;re doing, and how the person you&#8217;re working with is doing, you&#8217;re not going to be able to meet in the middle to ultimately achieve your goals &#8211; which are ultimately for the dog, and probably keeping your business going.&#8221;<\/em> \u2014\u00a0 Dr. Jessalyn Klein\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Get Jerry&#8217;s book <a href= \"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Controlled-Aggression-Girard-Bradshaw\/dp\/B005D2SAQ6\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1529296853&#038;sr=8-1&#038;keywords=COntrolled+aggression+book\"> Controlled Aggression on Amazon.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Contact Jessalyn:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>LinkedIn: <a href= \"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/jessalynkleinphd\/\">https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/jessalynkleinphd\/<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Contact Jerry:<\/p>\n<p>Website: <a href= \"https:\/\/controlledaggressionpodcast.com\/\">controlledaggressionpodcast.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Email: <a href= \"mailto:JBradshaw@TarheelCanine.com\">JBradshaw@TarheelCanine.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tarheel Canine Training: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tarheelcanine.com\/\">\u00a0www.tarheelcanine.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Youtube: <a href= \"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/user\/tarheelcanine\">\u00a0tarheelcanine<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Twitter: <a href= \"https:\/\/twitter.com\/tarheelcanine\">@tarheelcanine<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Instagram: <a href= \"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/tarheelk9\/\">@tarheelk9<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Facebook: <a href= \"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TarheelCanineTraining\">TarheelCanineTraining<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Protection Sports Website: <a href=\"https:\/\/psak9-as.org\/\">psak9-as.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Patreon: <a href= \"http:\/\/www.patreon.com\/controlledaggression\">\u00a0\u00a0patreon.com\/controlledaggression<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Slideshare: <a href= \"https:\/\/www.slideshare.net\/gwbradshaw12?utm_campaign=profiletracking&#038;utm_medium=sssite&#038;utm_source=ssslideview\"> Tarheel Canine<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Calendly: <a href= \"https:\/\/calendly.com\/tarheelcanine\">https:\/\/calendly.com\/tarheelcanine<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sponsors:\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>ALM K9 Equipment: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.almk9equipment.com\/\">almk9equipment.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>PSA &#038; American Schutzhund: <a href=\"https:\/\/psak9-as.org\/\">psak9-as.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Tarheel Canine: <a href= \"http:\/\/www.tarheelcanine.com\/\">tarheelcanine.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Train Hard, train smart, be safe.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Show notes by Podcastologist Chelsea Taylor-Sturkie<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Audio production by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.turnkeypodcast.com\/\">Turnkey Podcast Productions.<\/a> You&#8217;re the expert. 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